With just a few techniques, you can give your partner a sophisticated hand job that will leave him reeling. However, if they're not, this is where lube becomes necessary, because no one wants a dry hand job. A good hand job requires good leverage. Grip his penis with both hands, grip the loose skin on either side of it. So with this type, you definitely want to see how aggressively he tugs on himself before you jump in. I know from actual experience.

With the other hand, stroke it up and down, or do whatever. You just gave that guy one hell of a blow job. Use the pads of your fingers to gently, or not so gently, tap rhythmically. Follow Thought Catalog. But just as many women love being touched along the outer and inner labia as well as the super important clitoris , the entire length of the penis deserves love. The first step to giving a great blowjob is going in with a positive attitude.

As far as technique goes, you can and should always ask your partner what he likes, but a bit of experimentation and monitoring his reactions has the added benefit of teaching him a thing or two about what he finds most pleasurable. With the other hand, stroke it up and down, or do whatever. If you haven't figured out by now that lube makes everything better, maybe you will now. More From Sex and Love. Guys can still appreciate a good hand job.

Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Not only will you get a general idea of the speed and motion he uses, you'll also likely be turned on. This will slow blood flow away from his dick, which will keep him hard longer. Brush your pads or fingertips back and forth across an area to create more intense, vibrator like stimulation. The only way to know is to ask.